THE REBOOT
The Mission:
Fathers are indispensable
in the lives of their children
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THE TEN COMMANDMENTS
OF FATHERHOOD
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“Behold, children are a gift of the Lord…….”
Psalms 127:3 (NASB)
SUMMARY OF THE BOOK
THE REBOOT by Walter Ratcliffe is a transformative guide designed to help fathers reclaim the lives of their sons and daughters through a blend of practical strategies, reflective exercises, and insightful guidance. The author empowers his readers to break free from generational strongholds and patterns of behavior that have decimated so many children because of the absence of their fathers. The book offers hope, healing, and help by a step-by-step process for rediscovering purpose, building resilience, and creating meaningful, lasting restoration of relationships. Whether you're seeking to heal from past wounds, redefine your future relationships with you children, or simply find clarity in your life's purpose as a parent THE REBOOT provides the tools, inspiration and motivation needed to navigate the complexities of absenteeism with confidence and intention. Walter Ratcliffe's approach encourages readers to embrace their true potential as fathers by REBOOTING, reconnecting with their children. THE REBOOT serves as both a personal roadmap and a source of empowerment for those fathers ready to reemerge as the true fathers God has called them to be. It's more than just a guidebook; it's a call to action for anyone seeking to reclaim their children, renew their sense of purpose, and transform their life into one of fulfillment and meaning.
"Fathers Matter"
"Fathers are their son's first hero and their
daughter's first love"
CHAPTER TITLES
CHAPTER - 1 : I Don't Have a Father - pg 9
CHAPTER - 2: How Come He Don't Want Me? - pg 23
CHAPTER - 3: What Happens When Fathers Aren't Around - pg 31
CHAPTER - 4: Like Father Like Son - pg 39
CHAPTER - 5: Heroes - pg 49
CHAPTER - 6: Heroes 'Rescue' Their Children - pg 55
CHAPTER - 7: Heroes 'Restore' Their Children - pg 67
CHAPTER - 8: What Every Son Needs From a Father - pg 77
CHAPTER - 9: Daddy's Little Girl - pg 87
CHAPTER - 10: He's Called to Be Father, Not Friend - pg 97
CHAPTER - 11: A Generation That Did Not Know God - pg 105
CHAPTER - 12: Real Talk - pg 115
THE FOUR "A'S" OF FATHERHOOD
Four things a child needs from their father
ATTENTION
Be fully present; actively listen and engage in your child’s life to make them feel valued.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
Recognize and validate your child's emotions, thoughts, and experiences, helping them feel understood.
AFFECTION
Show love through words, touch, and actions, building emotional security and connection.
AFFIRMATION
Speak positive, encouraging words over your child, boosting their confidence and self-worth.
CUSTOMER BOOK REVIEWS
'“I actually read it and am on me second reading. For me, I thought Ch.10 " He's Called To Be Father Not Friend" was very well written because right from the opening sentence it speaks about the the redefining of father's in society today has diminished " the role and authority of the father." Quoting Proverbs about how sons need their father's discipline. Pp 99-I03 (well written and well referenced scripture. Also Ch. 11, "A Generation That Did Not Know God" is upon this generation today. So many elements of knowing are absent in young boys lives principally due to the absence of father's. Pp 108 provided the sheer and raw guidance for father's that the Word REQUIRES of a father. You captured that with great authority. Lastly, and on a small note in the book (pp.80-Outward Character-"Show yourself as a Man" Excellent!!! I have more to provide upon the conclusion of my second reading. So far A+”
Review by: DAVE HAMMONS
Director of Men's Ministry
Book Review: The Reboot: Reconnecting Fathers with Their Sons and Daughters by Walter L. Ratcliffe
In the first sentence, Walter Ratcliffe identifies a relationship with Jesus Christ as a solution to the fatherless problem. This fatherhood handbook, rooted in Biblical principles, guides readers toward a closer walk with the Lord. The key theme of the book is to reconnect broken relationships between fathers and their children, likening the process to rebooting a
computer. Ratcliffe shares his personal story when he was 16 and his father passed away. This resulted in wounds and brokenness attributed to his experience with fatherlessness. His message is directed at fathers who have been absent from their children's lives and others who wish to strengthen their relationships. Themes of restoration and rescue resonate throughout the book. Drawing from his professional experiences as a pastor for 25 years and a probation officer for 28 years, Ratcliffe illustrates the impact of fatherlessness in the many lives he has encountered in jails, courtrooms and altars. The author provides practical instructions that fathers can implement immediately, including the four As: affirmation, acknowledgment, attention, and affection. This book offers hope to every dad who wants to be a father to the fatherless. The principles are applicable for fathers at any stage and age, encouraging them to be their child's hero and to rescue their children. With a balanced approach suitable for fathers of both sons and daughters, this book is a must-read for every dad. I highly recommend this book to fathers and those who love children, as the principles
within can greatly benefit their relationships.
Deacon Tracy Robinson
Doctoral Student
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